tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-904296131766874184.post3531220507769483124..comments2023-10-18T10:37:01.014-05:00Comments on Jen and Carter's Journey Thru Life and Infertility! Praising God for our Miracle.: Faith counting on Him to get us through the Storm.Jen&Carterhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11400087009612557359noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-904296131766874184.post-65936394329147810422008-08-07T15:01:00.000-05:002008-08-07T15:01:00.000-05:00Men process things in such different ways. Women t...Men process things in such different ways. Women tend to cry and talk about things more while men internalize it all. I think part of the reason they do that is b/c they think that talking to us about it will only upset us more. Just give him gentle reminders that you're there when he's ready. He'll come around.<BR/><BR/>Ditto on the book "Grieving the Child I Never Knew".<BR/><BR/>Thinking about you!!!Jannahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09577220349572204264noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-904296131766874184.post-29096284465509893152008-08-04T22:30:00.000-05:002008-08-04T22:30:00.000-05:00Hi. Continuing to think of you. One thing that h...Hi. Continuing to think of you. One thing that helped me.... try to get your hands on the book "Grieving the Child I Never Knew." I tried many after my miscarriages but this one helped me immensely.... helped me to not feel quite so crazy as I walked through the grieving process. She even has a chapter on dealing with the fact that husbands deal with grief differently.... and that's okay. That chapter alone helped me and helped my marriage a lot during those difficult days.Deannahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18070412420806220015noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-904296131766874184.post-27590649836053524702008-08-04T21:09:00.000-05:002008-08-04T21:09:00.000-05:00Take your time. Let him deal with it and process t...Take your time. Let him deal with it and process through it. Pray often.<BR/><BR/>Thinking of you both. Thank you for the update and what sweet friends it sounds like you have.Hope2morrowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00196437847799474686noreply@blogger.com